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Our sɘx life will be great!

There are so many nuances surrounding the growth and maintenance of a healthy marriage. One of the larger portions of nuances just so happens to surround sɘx and intimacy. How does one keep a happy, healthy sɘx life over the long-term? Thinking about the 16 years that I have been married, I began to reflect on what keeps our intimacy strong and sɘxual experiences positive, productive, and pleasurable. Below are three ways to have positive sɘxual experiences with your partner.

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Ask

Remember that your marriage certificate did not come with a mind reading designation for either party. In order to maximize your pleasure, communicate with your partner! Ask them to do the things you enjoy and ask them what they enjoy. Ask about adding new things to the bedroom and ask how they did or did not enjoy it.

Switch

Do not get stuck in the same routine, or position, switch it up some. I know it can be anxiety driven to move away from missionary, or only giving oral, but I know you can do it! To help reduce the anxiety, talk to your partner about the desire and show them what the new position looks like. And this leads right into number three.

Let Go

Your partner is not looking for the next porn star, they are looking to enjoy their partner! When you are in “sɘx mode”, the last thing on your mind should be limiting yourself. If you need to make noise, do it! If you need to loosen up your hips for comfort, do it! If your body is ready to climax, do it! Completely clear your mind and welcome your partner in, literally 😉

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