A Message from our President
Helene Schutz
106 and Still Going Strong
Greetings Ladies,
106 is an auspicious number.
It is a sign that your better angels are prompting you to assume leadership and take the initiative within your family and community. 106 signifies unwavering courage to fight your limitations, so that your potential becomes stronger than your excuses. I canât think of a more fitting spiritual and numerological match in meaning and mission for WCDâs 106th anniversary.
I picture a birthday cake with 106 candles ablaze for this extraordinary occasion. My wish is that the little girl who, today, sits in front of her own 5th birthday cake will, in 60 years, find our calling and traditionsâunbroken by then for 166 years âappealing, and will become part of WCDâs continuing bright future.
Our club is thriving and having full activities once again post-COVID. I am especially proud of our charitable efforts that have provided hands-on interaction and needed funding for our worthy causes. As I write this message, I am looking forward to our Annual Luncheon on May 6th and the substantial donations to our charities.
So many of you have participated to ensure our Luncheonâs success: planning logistics, buying, or selling tickets, gathering donations, making raffle baskets, researching for our history table, or working on our fashion show. This is just a partial list since there are so many aspects required to launch this enormous endeavor; thank you to all who pitched in so enthusiastically. Iâd also like to thank Linda Akers for her creative and capable direction for the event.
As the Winter ends and the warmth of Spring is on the horizon, I reflect that my greatest pleasure as President has been getting to know you and getting closer to you through our shared work, achievements, and good times together. Undoubtedly you, our members, are a special and rare group of women who strive tirelessly for excellence and have achieved amazing results through selfless hard work.
On a personal note, I thank you for your support, prayers, and friendship throughout our time together.
Wishing the WCD a happy, happy 106th! And may we all celebrate many, many more birthdays together in good health and happiness.
Helene
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Editor-in-Chief
Annette Aloisio

âWhatâs It All About AlfieâŠ.â (Lyrics by Burt Bacharach and Hal David â Screenplay by Bill Naughton)
âThe song questions the meaning of life: âwhatâs it all about Alfie, is it just for the moment we liveâŠare we meant to take more than we give or are we meant to be kindââŠâ
âThe movie tells of a young womanizing man who leads a self-centered life "purely" for his own enjoyment.â
So, I thought: what is âitâ truly all about? We live each day, taking for granted that we will live to see another day and trying to make the most out of each and every day. Is it so wrong to live "purely" for our own enjoyment?
Most of us are at an age wherein we have raised our families (some are still in this stage). Families come in all shapes and sizes and there is always drama past, present or future. Also, most of us are at an age wherein we have fulfilled our duties, obligations and responsibilities as caring children to our parents as they aged, as they became needier and less independent. Often, we lost our parent(s) which was heartbreaking, sad; sometimes we are left with regrets and âif onlysâ. And, yes, often times, we are left feeling exhausted. So, is it so wrong to live "purely" for our own enjoyment?
When we take on the role of caretaker to our husband, parents, children, siblings, aunts, uncles, neighbors, and even our beloved pets, we are often times overwhelmed. So, is it so wrong to live "purely" for our own enjoyment?"
Most of us in our golden years have for the most part fulfilled or are fulfilling our obligation and duty to take care of others in our lives â be it parents, husband, children, siblings, aunts, uncles, friends, âfur babiesâ (dogs, cats, birds, fish, etc.â). Some of us take on the responsibility with grace and compassion. We do what we have to do, and we do it well. When people need us, we do our best to be our best.
I like to think of âitâ as a balancing act. We give to others, and hopefully to ourselves. While we practice being kind to others, it is equally important to be kind to ourselves. It is healthy and healing to indulge our wants, our needs; it is healthy to take time to be kind to yourself â have âalone timeâ.
We at the WCD give to Charity; we attend meetings; we support our Club; we go to theater; we go on trips; we go to museums; we go to opera; we go to luncheons; we help a friend and/or neighbor in need. We socialize; we care. We give with full and loving hearts while nourishing our minds and bodies and fulfilling our individual needs.
As has been previously stated, socialization is the number one requirement for sound mental health. In taking care of ourselves, we are being kind to ourselves.
Bottom line: I do believe âitâ is about caring for others, definitely; but caring for yourself most importantly â not in a selfish manner â but in a selfless manner. No, it is not wrong to pursue enjoyment â it is healthy and necessary. Letâs omit the word âpurelyâ (entirely).
âThe purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.â (Eleanor Roosevelt)
A.A.
MAY 2022
âI thought that spring must last forevermore; for I was young and loved,
and it was Mayâ (Vera Brittain)
The month of May, according to the Gregorian calendar, is named after Maia â the goddess of springtime and growth. Historically, the gentle warmth of the month caused flowers to blossom, crops to sprout, and people to dance. Children made garlands from greenery and participated in joyful celebrations on the first day of May.
These early May celebration traditions declined in popularity some two thousand years ago, but the spirit of May-time merriment remains to this day. Even as we grieve the loss of our heroes on Memorial Day, we find ways to celebrate the freedom that proves that their sacrifices were not in vain.
On the second Sunday of May, we honor those women who are our mothers â mom, mommy, mama, ma! We buy flowers, we spend the day together or in the silence of our hearts, we honor those no longer with us. We never forget our amazing, caring, loving Mothers!
"How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes" (Maya Angelou).
Meet the Board
Fran Bello
For as long as I have been a member of the WCD (more than 12 years), and before my membership, Fran has been our Music Chair. Fran joined the WCD Board in 1979 and in addition to serving as our Music Chairwoman, she also served as Vice President (2008-2011).
Fran does not take this task lightly. She does her research; she treats each venture as an adventure, giving careful thought to the likes of the WCD members. Some of the outings with Fran as our Guide and Leader, and most recently, was La Bohemeâ at the magnificent Metropolitan Opera House where a few short years ago (pre-pandemic) we saw Le Nozze di Figaro. Thanks to Fran we took a trip to the historic Kings Theater in Brooklyn where we saw the Moscow Nutcracker Ballet â unforgettable. Of course, no one will ever forget the trip to St. John the Divine, which trip Fran is hoping to repeat during this coming Christmas/Holiday Season.
Fran adds a touch of class to our already âclassyâ Club. Fran enriches our lives with these out-of-the ordinary soirees and affords us opportunities which some of us may never have previously partaken. Thank you, Fran for doing your job and doing it so well. You are and forevermore will be our Fantastic Fran!
Fran counts her blessings every day, as we count ours that Fran gives us what we need to soothe our souls and enrich our minds. Brava Frances!
Fran is a long-term resident of Douglas Manor. She is a loving mother, and a very proud grandmother and great-great grand mother!
A.A.
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SUNSHINE
Thinking of you cards were sent to Joyce Ramirez and Nell Wrynn.
A Get Well Card was sent to Ann Cavaseno.
A Thank You Card was received from Beverly Emery.
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR MAY GIRLS
Joyce Ramirez, May 1
Carolyn Karoff, May 1
Ruth Ma-Harrigan, May 9
Sandy Hart, May 11
Pat OâConnor, May 18
Jeri Lynett, May 26
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Woman's Club of Douglaston
917-300-9026
Officers:
Helene Schutz, President
Vice President, Maria DiChiara
Recording Secretary, Helena Wong
Corresponding Secretary, Sarah Milunec
Treasurer, Sandy Hart
NEWSBYTES EDITORIAL TEAM
Annette Aloisio, Editor-in-Chief
Johanna Abramo, Content Oversight, Editorial Review
Linda Akers, Design, Audiovisual, Publishing
Sarah Milunec, Hard Copy
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